Always be ready for everything in life and don’t expect the things to come with warning. Life is too short to practise every single thing before it happen and that’s why sometimes we goes with wrong decisions and end up with bad experiences.
When it comes down to it, as humans, we have almost identical DNA and not surprisingly, we share similar experiences and no human being can ever say that i have never committed any mistake or my every decision is perfect. then why we always feel so uncomfortable to share our bad experiences ? Yeah,I made mistakes and yes, I have the courage to say that because i know that situation is always different and life does not come with an instruction manual and not every time i could fix it up but atleast it may help others to make some better decisions.Maturity comes with experiences and not with age.The more you explore yourself and commit mistakes, more mature you became.
‘If you never tasted a bad apple, you would never appreciate a good apple’, because you have to experience life to understand life.
But you don’t have to learn life lessons the hard way. It would be senseless to do so every time when there is an easier alternative: Learn from other people’s lessons by truly believing that they apply to you. This is great because you can save your time, money and energy by learning lessons the easy way from others who have already gone wrong and learned them the hard way.
1. THERE ARE NO SHORTCUTS TO ANY PLACE WORTH GOING –
Never try to take shortcuts for any path. maybe you will reach to your destination and it will save your time too but you will skip so many places in between. Journey is more important than path.
2. DON’T JUST LIVE, FIND YOUR LIFE PURPOSE-
Look..it’s simple! you have only 2 options in your life…LIVING OR EXISTING. Just ask yourself, who do you want to be remembered for? Don’t do the things just for the sake of doing it. find your happiness in your work and then do it. Don’t just exist, find your life and live it before it’s too late !
3. DON’T TAKE IT PERSONAL-
Sometimes the person who avoids you or ignore your presence doesn’t want to ignore you actually, it is just a matter of their priorities. When you stop taking things personally, you’ll feel better and your relationships will improve dramatically. Even in cases when it is personal, your life will be better if you treat it as if it wasn’t. If you don’t believe me, I won’t take it personally.
4. FORGIVE EVERYONE FOR EVERYTHING-
when someone apologies for their mistakes don’t judge them, just forgive them. No matter how bad the person is or how much hurt you have experienced, just forget it. once you forget it, you are free. once you forgive them, they are free.
5. FOLLOW YOUR HEART-
Don’t think twice! Don’t ask anyone for advice and don’t listen others for their suggestions they are not living your life. only you know yourself better than anyone else does so don’t lie with yourself.
Life is like a road, there are bumps, there are cracks, there are road blocks. People change. Feelings fade. Friends leave. Lovers become strangers. you will be judged.
In 3 words i can sum up everything i have learned about life – LIFE GOES ON !
So, Live a life true to yourself and you don’t need to regret for anything.